Welcome to part two of the series “Keep Your Relationship Going Strong”. In part one; we talked about a man needing space. We don't want our man feeling overwhelmed, but what we do want is for him to be able to do his own thing from time to time. A little space never killed anyone. If your relationship is going well it will just help him to appreciate it, and the time you do spend together will be that more meaningful.
There is another important thing girls need to learn to have in a relationship, its trust. Many girls don't trust the guy they are with for one reason or another. Maybe you have seen girls on T.V get cheated on, you have seen loved ones in your life get cheated on, or you have been cheated on yourself.
Well I’m sorry if it has happened to you but it is time to get over the past. You can't keep comparing the man your with now with an ex, they are not the same. Trusting your man means you don't do certain things, like accuse him of doing things he might or might not be doing and snooping through his phone!
I'm sorry to say I am guilty of doing this myself with a past boyfriend; I was a teenager and didn’t know any better. It ruined us because I found something that I couldn't forgive; he was telling another girl he loved her. From that moment on the relationship went downhill until we eventually broke up. So please do not do it if you want your relationship to continue.
If you feel like he's being weird, disappearing, sending fishy text messages to random people or anything else just ask him “What’s up?” You might be surprised what he will admit to when he’s not being accused of something or attacked. So girls try to be trusting and give your man the benefit of the doubt till proven guilty, because not every guy is a cheater.
See you in "Keep Your Relationship Going Strong" Part 3
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Keep Your Relationship Going Strong: Part 2
Posted by Rochelle at 2:59 PM