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This is part one of my new series “Keep Your Relationship Going Strong". In each part I’ll give you girls tips on how you can keep your relationship with your man healthy and on the road to happiness and success.
Yes girls I said it! He needs space to breathe, to have alone time, to hang out with the boys, to play video games, to watch sports on ESPN, and to actually miss you. That doesn’t mean since you’re not with him you’re going to blow up his phone with a million text messages…leave him alone! Trust me after a few hours of no contact he will start to wonder what you are up too, and send you a text or call to see “what’s up?"
That is the goal…we want him to miss us, if he doesn’t that means he is on the road to being bored of us and that could be the beginning of the end of the relationship. So try it…go a few hours without texting or calling him and see what happens…you’ll probably be amazed!
See you in "Keep Your Relationship Going Strong" Part 2
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Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Keep Your Relationship Going Strong: Part 1
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Well actually everyone is an individual. I'm the man of my relationship, he is the clingy woman. I'm the one who after nearly a year still wants time on her own and he is sending me millions text messages wondering where am I :P And I'm the one constantly saying that I'M NOT RUNNING AWAY FROM YOU!!!!! I TRYING TO DO MY JOB AT WORK!!! JESUS MAN!!! STOP THE SPAM! YOU ARE DRIVING ME INSANE!
ReplyDeleteI tried to make him understand how annoying it is by spamming him for 3 days in a row but nope that just made him sooo happy.... Also my ex was whole another case. He wanted his space, no problem, he got that from me. But even if I didn't talk to him for like 4 hrs and I spend all that time outside with friends and then spend extra 5 hrs with family without talking to him so in total 9 hrs no contacting. Well he didn't send a thing to me and when I called him he said he didn't even notice that I was gone for so long....-.- And he wasn't someone I knew for few months, cough cough we were a couple for 6 yrs!!! And he never noticed I was gone :P Thought I gave him tons of space ;D
So remember that everyone is individual but yes don't spam. Let your guy go out with his buddies. Spend that time with your friends or working out. You both will feel way better! And it won't mean that you care less or that he will run away. The middle golden path is best here aswell! :) You have no idea how happy your man will be when you let him spend few hours with friends instead of you, all that time he has been away from you he most likely has missed you and is way more excited to spend time with you now! But don't force him to go out. That's just awkward! :D
I'm with my current man hoping that he let's me go to gym because otherwise I'll go insane here! I need some action and he ain't much of action fan :/
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The roles are switched sometimes when it is the man who is super clingy. It could just mean that he is insecure about something. He probably thinks you are the best thing that ever happened to him and he doesn't want to lose you. I would not be surprised if he thinks you would leave him because he thinks you are too good for him. Just reassure him that you want to be with him and that he does not have to be worried at all. You both need to have your own space for the relationship to be healthy.
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